Whatsoever a man soweth, that shall he also reap!!!!. You don’t plant Okra if you want to reap tomatoes; And you can’t plant hateful and get love. The Bible says in order to obtain friends, a man must first show himself friendly; Don’t get upset because people don’t like you when you’re not likeable; If you sow a smile, you’ll reap a smile; If you sow a good deed you reap a good deed; If you sow kindness, you’ll reap kindness; You can’t teach your children to be more loving by you being more nasty. People learn what they see. If you want to teach them love, you have to give them love.